Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Paul Fussell on the Tell-Tale Signs of Class.

Photo by Andrejs Pidjass (Nejron).
 

"At the bottom, people tend to believe that class is defined by the amount of money you have. In the middle, people grant that money has something to do with it, but think education and the kind of work you do almost equally important. Nearer the top, people perceive that taste, values, ideas, style, and behavior are indispensable criteria of class, regardless of money or occupation or education." —Paul Fussell
 
In 1983, the departed literary writer, cultural historian and scholar, published his book, Class, A Guide Through the American Status System. As New York Times writer, Bruce Weber described it: "Mr. Fussell brought an erudition, a gift for readable prose, a willingness to offend and, as many critics noted, a whiff of snobbery to subjects like class, clothing, the dumbing down of American culture and the literature of travel." He was unapologetic in his views and commentary, and completed a well-dissected analysis of the social classes within American society. What tell-tale signs differentiate us along this ladder, from top to bottom? Here are a few of my favorite excerpts from this groundbreaking (and rather humorous) book. It is a little dated, but much still rings true, denoting that most features of class defy time and generation.


Monday, July 7, 2014

INTERVIEW: Dana Thomas. New York Times Best-Selling Author & International Fashion Reporter Reveals How Luxury Lost Its Luster.

Dana wearing a Philip Treacy hat. Photo by Hervé d’Halluin.
 

"The story of luxury goods today is really about globalization, capitalization, class and culture. Dana Thomas has a feel for all of this and more and has written a fascinating book. A luxury product about luxury." —Fareed Zakaria, Newsweek

Brand-name luxury today is beyond what it ever was—from light-hearted desire to dire necessity. I remember in the late 1980s/early 1990s when stories of a few inner-city kids, many who subsisted on government aid, were being robbed (or robbing others in their peer group) of their expensive brand-name tennis shoes. You had to pack heat when wearing your Jordan's. This was also the time when wearing head-to-toe logoed Gucci warm-up suits (often knock-offs) with a matching fanny pack was the player’s choice. Looking poor—even though economically disadvantaged—made one an outcast and even the butt of jokes. This is a cultural anomaly whose roots are deep and growing in prevalence, in considerable part by its superstar advertisers (Sean “P. Diddy” Combs, Jennifer Lopez, Beyoncé, Lil Wayne, etc.). If you want to be admired and envied, you’ve gotta look like you can make it rain, or at least appear rained on, and that means luxury brands.

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Ladies SPRING/SUMMER Wardrobe Essentials: WHAT TO WEAR in Greenwich, CT to Île de Ré.

 
 

You should NEVER do super high fashion or couture on the beach! It screams, "I am newly affluent and desperate to fit in!" I remember reading an article about what one beautiful old money Hampton's veteran said about a Russian girl that showed up with a friend in head-to-toe Hermès at a beach picnic, "She looked ridiculous and didn't fit in at all." Also, the last time my husband and I were on vacation in Nosara, Costa Rica, a couple arrived to the beach-front hotel we were staying at looking like cast members from the set of Dynasty. Quelle Horreur!

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

STYLE FAUX PAS: Nine Simple Mistakes that UN-CHIC Your Look.


 False eyelashes, too much eye shadow = un-chic.

Everyone wants to look expensive and well put together (or they should!) and pourquoi? There is authority, respect, beauty and poise in looking inimitable; having the appearance of a class act. We remember the class acts, they emit something nostalgic in us; a yearning perhaps for more formal and traditional times where being a “lady” and a “gentleman” really meant something. There was mystery and fantasy and allure.